May 132013
 

HOW A SON/DAUGHTER THINKS OF HIS/HER DADDY AT DIFFERENT AGES:

At 4 Years
My daddy is great.

At 6 Years
My daddy knows everybody.

At 10 Years
My daddy is good but is short tempered

At 12 Years
My daddy was very nice to me when I was young.

At 14 Years
My daddy is getting fastidious.

At 16 Years
My daddy is not in line with the current times.

At 18 Years
My daddy is becoming increasingly cranky.

At 20 Years
Oh! Its becoming difficult to tolerate daddy. Wonder how Mother puts up with him.

At 25 Years
Daddy is objecting to everything.

At 30 Years
It’s becoming difficult to manage my son. I was so scared of my father when I was young.

At 40 Years
Daddy brought me up with so much discipline. Even I should do the same.

At 45 Years
I am baffled as to how my daddy brought us up.

At 50 Years
My daddy faced so many hardships to bring us up. I am unable to manage a single son.

At 55 Years
My daddy was so far sighted and planned so many things for us. He is one of his kind and unique.

At 60 Years
My daddy is great.

Thus, it took 56 years to complete the cycle and come back to the 1st. stage. Realize the true value of your parents before its too late.

 Posted by at 8:01 pm
May 122013
 

Woh bhi kya din they

Mummy ki goad or Papa ke kandhe

Na Paise ki soch Na life k funde
Na kal ki chinta Na future ke sapne

Or Ab

Kal ki hai fikar or adhure hai sapne

Mud Kar dekha toh bahut dur hai apne
Manzilo ko dhundte hum kaha kho gaye??

Na jane Kyun hum itne bade ho gaye…:)

Woh bhi kya din they

 Posted by at 11:04 pm
May 122013
 

Woh bhi kya din the
Jab ham hamesha khush hote they
Chhoti si cheez pane ko
jhoota rona rote the
Hamari sari ziddien poori ki jati thi
Jinke poora hote hi
Ham duniya ko paa lete they
Kalpnaao ki duniya hoti thi
Jisme kuchh sapney bhi hote they
Kya wo din they
Jab ham hamesha khush hote they
Un dino mein kabhi mustakbil ki fikr na thi
Ham khaboon ko bhul haqeeqat mein jeete they
Zara si baat pe haste or zara si baat pe rote they
Dosto k sath khel khelte, masti kiya krte they
Ab to aansu ki ek boond bhi usva kar jati hai
Bachpan mein to dil khol k roya karte they

 Posted by at 8:00 pm
Apr 282013
 

Employee “A” in a company walked up to his manager and asked what my job is for the day? The manager took “A” to the bank of a river and asked him to cross the river and reach the other side of the bank. “A” completed this task successfully and reported back to the manager about the completion of the task assigned. The manager smiled and said “GOOD JOB

Next day Employee “B” reported to the same manager and asked him the job for the day. The manager assigned the same task as above to this person also. The Employee “B’ before starting the task saw Employee “C” struggling in the river to reach the other side of the bank. He realized “C” has the same task. Now “B” not only crossed the river but also helped “C” to cross the river. “B” reported back to the manager and the manager smiled and said “VERY GOOD JOB

The following day Employee “Q” reported to the same manager and asked him the job for the day. The manager assigned the same task again. Employee “Q” before starting the work did some home work and realized “A”, “B” & “C” all has done this task before. He met them and understood how they performed. He realized that there is a need for a guide and training for doing this task. He sat first and wrote down the procedure for crossing the river, he documented the common mistakes people made, and tricks to do the task efficiently and effortlessly. Using the methodology he had written down he crossed the river and reported back to the manager along with documented procedure and training material. The manger said “Q” you have done an “EXCELLENT JOB“.

The following day Employee “O’ reported to the manager and asked him the job for the day. The manager assigned the same task again. “O” studied the procedure written down by “Q” and sat and thought about the whole task. He realized company is spending lot of money in getting this task completed. He decided not to cross the river, but sat and designed and implemented a bridge across the river and went back to his manager and said, “You no longer need to assign this task to any one”. The manager smiled and said “Outstanding job ‘O’. I am very proud of you.”

What is the difference between A, B, Q & O? Many a times in life we get tasks to be done at home, at office, at play.,
Most of us end up doing what is expected out of us. Do we feel happy? Most probably yes. We would be often disappointed when the recognition is not meeting our expectation. Let us compare ourselves with “B”. Helping someone else the problem often improves our own skills. There is an old proverb (I do not know the author) “learn to teach and teach to learn”. From a company point of view “B” has demonstrated much better skills than “A” since one more task for the company is completed.

“Q” created knowledge base for the team. More often than not, we do the task assigned to us without checking history. Learning from other’s mistake is the best way to improve efficiency. This knowledge creation for the team is of immense help. Re-usability reduces cost there by increases productivity of the team. “Q” demonstrated good “team-player” skills,

Now to the outstanding person, “O” made the task irrelevant; he created a Permanent Asset to the team.
If you notice B, Q and O all have demonstrated “team performance” over and above individual performance; they have also demonstrated a very invaluable characteristic known as “INITIATIVE”.

Initiative pays of everywhere whether at work or at personal life. If you have initiative you will succeed. Initiative is a continual process and it never ends. This is because this year’s achievement is next year’s task. You cannot use the same success story every year. The story provides an instance of performance, where as measurement needs to be spread across at least 6-12 months. Consequently performance should be consistent and evenly spread. Out-of-Box thinkers are always premium and that is what everyone constantly looks out for. Initiative, Out-of-Box thinking and commitment are the stepping stone to success.

Initiative should be lifelong. Think of out of the box…..Happy Working

 Posted by at 10:33 am
Mar 202013
 

Mujhe buhut dar lagta hai
Sabhi rishtay natoon se dar lagta hai

Jab kabhi raat k akheer pehr main
Aankh jo yak dam khulti hai
Mujhe apna hee bistar weshatoon ka ghar lagta hai
Mujhe dar lagta hai sabhi un badalte dinoon se
Mujhe din aur ye rat se dar lagta hai
Dar lagta hai mujhe duniya ki shadabiyun se
Ab tu har aane wale kal aur pal se dar lagta hai
Mujhe apni zat apne sifat se dar lagta hai
Tere diye huey sabhi alqabat se dar lagta hai
Tujhse jurri har har bat se dar lagta hai
Dar lagta hai mujhe apne hee angan main
Mujhe mere naam k alfaz se dar lagta hai
Tujhe pata tu tha k main aisa nahi hoon
Mujhe meri tanhai se dar lagta hai
Yaad kar wo judai k akhri sahbdoon ko
main jabaja yehi kehta ja raha tha
Sunu mujhe dar lagta hai
Mujhe buhut dar lagta hai

 Posted by at 4:09 pm
Mar 202013
 

Tere baare mein jab sochaa nahin thaa
Main tanha tha magar itana nahin thaa

Teri tasviir se karataa thaa baate.n
Mere kamrai mein aainaa nahin thaa

Samandar ne mujhe pyaasa hi rakhaa
Main jab sehra mein tha pyasa nahin thaa

Manaane-roothane ke khel mein ham
Bichar jaayeinge ye sochaa nahin thaa

Sunaa hai band kar li us ne aankhein
Kayi raaton se vo soyaa nahiin thaa

 Posted by at 8:31 am
Mar 192013
 

A Real Friend
If I could take a minute
To help you understand
I am a better person
Because you are my friend.

And it really doesn’t matter
If we’re together or apart
For I swept you up into my hands
And placed you in my heart.
thanks for being my friend

 Posted by at 7:21 am
Mar 182013
 

Aa K Le Jaye Meri Aankh Ka Paani Mujh Se
Kiun Hasad Karti Hai Darya Ki Rawani Mujh Se

Gosht Nakhun Se Alag Ker K Dikhaya Main Ne
Usne Poochay Thay Judai K Ma’ani Mujh Se

Khatam Hone Laga Jab Khoon Bhe Ashkon Ki Tarah
Ker Gaye Khawab Mere Nakal Makaani Mujh Se

Sirf Ek Shakhs K Gham Mein Muje Barbaad Na Ker
Roz Rotay Huay Kehti Hai Jawani Mujh Se

 Posted by at 8:19 am
Mar 172013
 

If She Shouts
“I Love you ” In Public Place She Meant It

If She Says It
In front of Her Friends She Is Proud Of You

If She Says It
In front of Her Parents.., She Is Ready For You

If She Expresses It
During Her Busy Working Hours,
She Constantly Thinks About You

Love Is Special In Its Own Way..!
Words Are Not Just Enough To Express Love

 Posted by at 11:19 pm